1,138 Federal (national-level) marriage rights and protections that exist
0 Federal marriage rights granted to same-sex couples
-----
6 States granting same-sex marriage (all state-level rights & protections granted)
Connecticut, Iowa, Maine, Massachusetts, New Hampshire, Vermont
29 States banning same-sex marriage by constitutional amendment*
11 States banning same-sex marriage by law**
-----
9 States offering same-sex civil unions/partnerships (some state-level rights & protections granted)***
1 State only recognizing same-sex marriage or civil unions/partnerships of other states
New York (and Washington D.C.)
-----
7 Countries with marriage equality
Belgium, Canada, Netherlands, Norway, South African, Spain, Sweden
15 Countries with national-level same-sex civil unions/partnerships (many rights & benefits)
Andorra, Czech Republic, Denmark, Finland, France, Germany, Greenland, Hungary, Iceland, Luxembourg, New Zealand, Slovenia, Switzerland, United Kingdom, Uruguay
5 Countries with some jurisdictions (e.g., states, territories, etc.) recognizing same-sex civil unions/partnerships (some rights & benefits)
Argentina, Australia, Mexico, United States, Venezuela
1 Country only recognizing same-sex marriages or civil unions/partnerships of other nations
Israel
-----
Some Highlights in the Struggle:
1989, October 1 - World's first legal civil union in modern history in Copenhagen, Denmark.
1999 - Vermont legislature creates a category, "civil union," that gave same-sex couples the same state-level rights and benefits that married couples enjoy.
2003, November 18 - Massachusetts Supreme Judicial Court declares in Goodridge v. Department of Public Health that denying marriage to same-sex couples violates that state's constitution, marking the first time a state supreme court recognized the right of same-sex couples to marry.
2004, November - 11 states outlaw same-sex marriage by constitutional amendments.
2006, November - 7 more states outlaw same-sex marriage by constitutional amendments.
2008, February 1 - NY State Court of Appeals rules in Martinez v. County of Monroe that marriages of same-sex couples entered into outside of New York must be recognized, as is in keeping with New York's longstanding practice of recognizing marriages from other jurisdictions.
2008, May 15 - California Supreme Court overturns the state's ban on same-sex marriage.
2008, October - Connecticut Supreme Court declares that denying marriage licenses to same-sex couples was unconstitutional discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation, even though Connecticut law already granted same-sex couples all the legal benefits and rights of marriage under the label of "civil unions."
2009, April - Iowa Supreme Court unanimously rules that Iowa's state ban on same-sex marriage denies equal protection of the law to gays and lesbians.
2009, April - Vermont legislature enactes a law to make same-sex marriages legal, overriding the governor's veto.
2009, May 6 - Maine enacts a same-sex marriage law.
2009, June 3 - New Hampshire enacts a same-sex marriage law.
*Alabama (2006), Alaska (1998), Arizona (2008), Arkansas (2004), California (2008),
Colorado, Florida (2008), Georgia (2004), Kansas (2005), Idaho (2006), Kentucky (2004),
Louisiana (2004), Michigan (2004), Mississippi (2004), Missouri (2004), Montana (2004),
Nebraska (2000), Nevada (2002), North Dakota (2004), Ohio (2004), Oklahoma (2004),
Oregon (2004), South Carolina (2006), South Dakota (2006), Tennessee (2006), Texas (2005),
Utah (2004), Virginia (2006) and Wisconsin (2006).
**Delaware, Hawaii, Illinois, Indiana, Maryland, Minnesota, North Carolina, Pennsylvania, Washington, West Virginia and Wyoming.
***California, Colorado, Hawaii, Maryland, New Jersey, Nevada, Oregon, and Washington.
-----
SOURCES:
http://www.hrc.org/documents/marriage_prohibitions_2009.pdf
http://www.nybooks.com/articles/22791
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Same-sex_marriage
IMAGES:
My versions of the 2009 marriage equality US flag, 2009 marriage equality "New Glory" flag, 2009 marriage equality Bennington Flag